As you know, I have recently found myself in a not-so-non-relationship with the Twin. It is still at this point undefined technically yet we are both actively making plans for "us" (including the princess and the puppy) well into the end of this year so I believe that there clearly is the intention on each of our parts of keeping the other one around for a minute.
We met on an on-line dating site. Nothing new about that. But at what point should the dating profiles be expected to come down? Or does it matter?
For me, I know how I am. I get easily distracted by shiny things. To leave the door to additional temptation open given my history with boy toys and the like, was not something that would be constructive for me to do while attempting to seriously consider giving it a go with one particular person.
So I deleted my profile. Not so much for him, but more so for me. He didn't ask me to, and I didn't tell him I did. I just did it because it was the right thing for me to do.
He still has his online. And he is online almost every day on it. And no I'm not a stalker
The question is, should I care? Does it matter?
I don't know.
What I do know is that, at least when we met on there, he had the intention of actively engaging with women, at the very least with me which he now does offline so I know that's not the reason anymore, and actually goes out with people he meets on there.
I don't like to make assumptions or jump to conclusions. I also don't like to ask questions I'm not entitled to have an answers to. So I'm kind of stuck.
I know I must like this guy because I care enough to do a post about something like this. I'm not insecure in general and specifically with our situation right now, I'm really happy. I guess I'm afraid of losing that happiness or being played. I'm not naive enough to think it couldn't happen. But I'm also not cynical enough to presume it will.
Any advice on this one??