It was a lovely weekend for the princess and I, I hope you all had a great one as well. I wanted to take a quick minute to follow up on my dilemma with the Twin and his online dating profile, which you all provided such great advice on, and how it shook it.
We had an entire weekend planned, totally of his doing, and after a lovely dinner with his best friends, their kids and the princess, we returned to my house full, happy, and tired. We were laying in bed, laughing over some funny things that came up over dinner and talking about plans for the rest of the weekend and I decided that it would be a good time to take your advice and bring up the topic that was weighing on my mind and distracting me from what should have been a great weekend.
I took a deep breath and just started. I said something along the lines of "we have a lot of plans together, are meeting the people that are important to us, and you are getting pretty close with princess.... I just want to make sure that I am understanding things as you intend me to..." He said I was understanding things perfectly and that his intention is to be with me and only me and that there is a reason that he is introducing me to the important people in his life and that he is wanting to spend time with the princess as well.
But I was still curious about the dating profile. So I asked him straight out about it. He said that he gets email alerts on his phone app for it and he goes on to delete them but hadn't actually been online or interacted on it since like the second time we went out. That satisfies me. I would prefer he take it down but I won't ask him to. I'm going to take him at his word at this point. Naive? Maybe. I prefer to call it trusting.
I slept better that night than I had in a long time. And we went on to have a great weekend. Canoe trip on the river Saturday morning, followed by a fall festival with his friends and their kids, and dinner at his other best friends house with the family from Friday night as well, they are all friends which is cool. I could tell by the way his friends treat him and talk about him, that they really think a lot of him. And they made me feel very much welcome and brought me right into the craziness. That counts.
So kids, it looks like just manning up and talking it out was indeed the correct way to go. So I thank you again for your comments and support... you all rock my face off!! *MWAH!*
And because I am in a Gym Class Heroes kind of mood, you get Cupid's Chokehold to listen to today.