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Saturday, April 2, 2011

Badass Chicks - No threesomes or sex torsos today I promise

Thanks for still following after my disturbing sex toy/creepy lady torso post from "Soft-Core Friday". I will try to not do that again but I couldn't keep my disturbing finds to myself. Sorry kids!

I felt obligated to post something new today just to help erase that image from our brains, and to get it off the top of my blog archive. Even I was tired of looking at it.

So for a change of scenery on this lovely weekend, I wanted to focus on a new topic: Badass Chicks: Scary or Sexy? I know what I think since I have the pleasure of knowing some dead sexy badass chicks myself (you know who you are you sexy bitches!) but wondered what your thoughts are.
I'm working on a post for The Dude Society about just such a topic so I wanted to get your thoughts on powerful, kickass women. Do you want to get down with them, or do you just hope they don't bitch slap you and make you cry?

Here is a little sneak peek of what I'm working on. Give me your feedback kids!


Chicks that Kick Ass: Hot or Scary?

Are chicks that kick ass hot or scary to the guys?

Obviously, in the case of the movie heroine badass, most guys would vote for “hot” without hesitation. Who doesn’t want to see Vanessa Hudgens scantily clad in a leather bustier and shooting an AK47?  But if it came down to a real life bad ass being your girl, would you think differently?

The Need to Be Needed

Most guys have the inherent need to be the protector of their girl. Defend her honor. Fight off the bad guys. Be the stud. What if your girl doesn’t really need or want that from you? Is it a threat to your masculinity or do you think a girl that can defend her own honor and doesn’t hesitate to do so is a turn on? 

19 comments:

  1. I can't even begin to tell you how much I am looking forward to the male feedback here. I have a big problem with this. I know that men need to feel needed, be providers, and "take care" of their women but I grew up such a tomboy, with a father who taught me how to shoot, how to defend myself, do for myself, etc...and while I have no problem letting that go and letting a man take care of it sometimes it's tough sometimes.

    I naturally do for myself, protect myself, speak up for myself. Sometimes getting softer, girlier, and less bad ass is tough for me. In my experience it scares guys off. I have honestly had a guy tell me, "You just don't need me enough." *he meant outside of the bedroom-obviously* and that stung. Then I thought...well he's right. I don't NEED him...but I wanted him...why wasn't that enough? Ugh. Can't wait to see how this turns out.

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  2. There is a natural desire to be the protector to keep your woman safe and secure. That's something all guys have in our genes, it's the way we are.

    BUT... there is absolutely something sexy about a tough bad ass chick who can handle herself in any situation. Some guys may be emasculated by that - but not me!

    Me personally, I could easily date a woman in either situation.

    SD
    The Simple Dude

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  3. Awesome question!! Been wanting to know that myself.. :D

    And just for the record, I happened to read some of your older posts before I hit follow.. Your last post on the other hand, had some seriously gross shit.. It would have had me running for cover, and never looking back if it were the first post I read on your blog.. :\

    @SD Glad to know such men do indeed exist.. Frankly, it's a relief!

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  4. Powerful independent women are always hot.

    I'm with SD. Both women are equally awesome.

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  5. i have found that men like the idea of a tough woman coming over to dominate them, until i show up in my dominatrix costume and start beating them. then they don't seem to be quite as game, lol

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  6. As long as she can make a mean sammich, I don't care what she does. lol

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  7. Uh, I prefer chicks that kick ass, but not too much ass. You know - - the ones that are all grossly muscular and greasy? Ew.

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  8. LOL, in fantasy, yeah the ripped chic one-handing the AK is mega-hot! In real life there's a balance. I like to know I'm the "man" in the relationship, but I also don't want to have to solve all of her problems for her. I prefer she be a girly-girl with a little spunk, not the other way around.

    In the bedroom, I'm definitely dominant.

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  9. I work with a woman who was a firearms officer in the police and used to work instruments in the police helicopter and I think she is as hot as fuck. I know it and she knows it. So I absolutely love strong women.

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  10. Strong women=Sexy. In real life AND movies.

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  11. I prefer a woman I don't have to baby sit. A woman that can look after herself no matter the situation, whether it is a creepy guy hitting on her, walking home from the bus stop at 2 am, or dealing with me when I'm a jackass. I need a strong woman, the meek and timid don't stick around.

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  12. Stupid writing all day...made me have to wait so long to read and now all the good points have already been made...*grumblegrumblegrumble*

    In my experience, most guys find it attractive when they learn that I could kick their ass sideways if I so wanted. I have though come across the rare guy that acts like a fucktard about it though.

    Of course this is only sparring, and I've wondered if I were ever in a dangerous situation while with like, a date or something, if the guy would find it as sexy that his chick friend was the one who "beat the bad" and not he.

    I would hope that the guy would be secure in himself enough to tell someone "yeah you should've seen my date kick the shit out of this fuckbag who tried to jump us", but I honestly don't know how many men would feel proud instead of emasculated when it came down to real fighting.

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  13. Men love strong smart women. A woman doesnt have to be physically strong either. A man will usually allow a woman to take charge and look after things, eg cooking, bill paying etc because they enjoy being looked after. A simpering helpless woman might be good for a mans ego for a short while but soon becomes boring.

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  14. There's a balance. If you find someone who can be kick ass in attitude, be self sufficient, wild and great in bed, but show tenderness and a need for you to be their man then that's preferable. I've dated extremes. Eitehr the frilly, prissy, needy, ultra feminine cheerleader type and the indepedent kick your ass chip on their shoulder chick. Both caused me heartache and heartburn.

    My wife is a good balance. She and I are raising our girls with that balance too. My teenager is a pretty cheerleader who obsesses over her hair. I've also seen her verbally dress down a mean spirited friend and her friend who is a boy for being disrepectful.

    Toughness with tenderness is what I'm trying to say here.

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  15. Agree with Lance on the balance. True of men as well. :-)

    www.alotoflayers.blogspot.com

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  16. I personally think it's hot as hell when a chick can kick ass, but she has to be smooth. Like Uma Thurman in Kill Bill. Now THAT'S a kick-ass chick who's sexy and cool as a cucumber, and she's my role-model. I would LOVE to be that badass, to be able to punch my way out of a buried coffin, or take out 40 martial arts warriors BY MYSELF. That's fucking HOT.

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  17. I need a man who can handle my macho complex. AND know when I need to be cuddled. Fingers crossed he exists.

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  18. LMFAO @ Lex.

    Well, it's a great question, actually. From the few guy friends that I know, they'd not like a girl who would kick a lot of ass.

    I personally prefer women who can kick major ass. The exwife was one of those and it's so damned sexy. My best friend is a big tomboy. beautiful, sexy, passionate, drinks tons of beer, does lots of mechanic work, but I know of the men in her life who have ended up regretting how much they under estimate her.

    I blogged about her a few months ago. To the point I sometimes think she's not from this world. Aside from kicking mofo ass, she's stronger and more energetic than any dude. I helped her move from SC to PA. When I arrived, she had already been up 24 hours. I helped around for 20 hours and I dropped dead. She continued on for another 12 with no rest. I woke up and she was still going. Two of us dudes didn't make it past the 20th hour mark.

    Overall, women who kick ass are super sexy. I don't mind them taking charge in everything they feel like it. Sometimes girls that need waaayyy too much protection and all that end up becoming more of a financial burden.

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