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Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Return of the Threesome - Random Girl at The Dude Society

Yes kids, it's back. The threesome! Based on the events, or not, of last weekend I have been writing a bit about threesomes. The Dude Society has my latest article up. You should go check it out. Now. I'll wait for you...go ahead, it's OK...

Back? Good! So what did you think? Let me know kids! And don't forget to show me some comment love at The Dude Society so they know how hard I rock and how awesome I am... right?!?

I have another much more detailed and informational post around the dynamics of threesomes and some of the risks vs. reward scenarios to consider in all types, FFM/MMF/Swinger, and how to best manage some of the challenges that can come in these potentially awesome yet complicated scenarios. Thanks to author of Monogamy Sucks George Pappas and to James Holeva "The Wingman" for their input and expertise on that one. It will be posted soon here at Random Girl. It was deemed a bit too racy for The Dude Society so you know it must be a really good one! Look for that one to come out on Sunday here.

In the meantime, here is a sneak peek of my latest The Dude Society article

Want A Threesome? How To Bring It Up Without Getting Smacked!



Any good porno worth its weight in… well, you know… features a threesome. This long sought after two-on-one scenario has rocked the world of many a guy for far too long. It is almost the holy grail of sex: To achieve the threesome means sexual greatness. I would venture to say that it is on 99% of all guys’ bucket lists, just an educated guess.  So how do you bring it up to your girl without getting smacked?


20 comments:

  1. I for one don't really crave for a threesome, although that picture is giving me second thoughts. And yes, you are indeed awesome.

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  2. I'm worried about there being jealousy, so I try to avoid the idea. What if I show the other girl too much attention, and ignore mine? What if #3 begins to harbor feelings for one of us? I've known too many people who have had 3somes, and it ruined their relationships, so I'll pass.

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  3. Where do I sign up for the threesome at? lol

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  4. I'm barely enough man for one woman, how could I possibly handle two?

    At least that's what I tell myself to justify the fact that I've never had a threesome. Poor me.

    SD
    www.TheSimpleDude.com

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  5. Great article hun!! I have had the fantasy, but just havent broched it with any of the men I have been with. My ex husband was completely against any kind of extra action with a male or a female so there was sure as hell no point in knocking on that door.

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  6. @Tony: Thanks for the awesome vote and the comment at DS! Appreciated! I agree they can/could be more trouble in the long run.

    @Lost: I don't know how the jealousy factor could be contained, it is just human nature to not want to see someone you love banging another person but I guess it works in the right circumstances. No shame in taking a pass on it either though

    @OT: I will be posting a sign up sheet for the threesome... no wait, I won't. Sorry!

    @SD: I agree that the thought of having to manage several peoples pleasure at one time sounds a little daunting. Totally a reason to not do it. But if you have a few good team players, the pressure could be decreased significantly from where I hear. But yes, you poor deprived baby you.

    @Brandi: I think girls think about this situation far more than guys would ever guess. I hope you come across a guy that will support your fantasies and give it a go if you really are wanting to live it out.

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  7. Seriously! You are awesome. It's like you crawled into my brain. I have had a few men bring it up in conversation but they never seem to want to follow through. I'm curious, but I don't think I'm curious enough to do anythign about it.

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  8. Heading over there now, love.~

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  9. I can't read that site from work but I will as soon I get the hell out of work.

    Also, I must catch up on your post because this just actually woke me up from the lethargic afternoon and I was going to say something else but I forget.

    Oh, monogamy is boring.

    Cheers : )

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  10. I fantasize about it but I don't think I could ever go through with it. I don't like to share my men! ;)

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  11. @Cinderita: I think everyone whether they have acted on it or not have at least thought through the scenario at some point. Nothing wrong with that darling!

    @Kat: thanks for the comment love at DS! Much appreciated love!

    @Porkstar: Aren't you glad you followed me?? Glad I could perk up an otherwise ho-hum afternoon for you.

    @Yvonne: I'm a tad territorial as well so I don't know what I would think about another girl joining an established relationship.

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  12. I've read, fallen in love with you, and commented. Fantastic article (I expected no less). Can't wait to see what else you have in store for us at DS. :-)

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  13. @Jewels: Thanks so much, love! I appreciate your comments here and at DS! Such good insight you offer on the situation.

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  14. Dat's what I call, a fis samadch!

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  15. Oohh! A threesome article!!! What a fabulous way to end my work day! I'm on my way over there. Thanks Randy!!

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  16. Yawn.... You don't have to bring up threesome to your girl. That's what hookers and roofies are for.

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  17. @ib: you are just wrong.. and funny!

    @Heather: thanks for the comment love at SD! much appreciated love!

    @ET: If you have to roofie your hookers someone is getting screwed and not in the good way. Just sayin'

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  18. How timely. Some guy just propositioned this very thing to me yesterday.

    Thanks for blogging about interesting topics. Looking forward to Sunday.

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  19. @Bella: Oh really?? And??? Don't leave me hanging girl! lol Sunday is going to be a good post, much more in depth and with experts weighing in on it so I hope we all can learn something from it!

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  20. LOL. LOL. I'm thinking about it. The thought is just floating in my head aimlessly, but your posts are helping with the process!

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